Gifted Psychics

The most basic compo­nent of your horoscope is your Sun Sign, which is the Zodiac sign the sun occupied at the time of your birth. It is also called your Star Sign or simply your Sign.

The sun is not really the driving force of a person's sexuality, and you have to check your whole horoscope to decide to what extent your personality can be described by its sign – but still, the Sun Sign gives some clues to your sexual habits and preferences:

Aries tends to be impulsive and sudden, also in bed. Aries likes to be a conqueror, taking the initiatives and making things happen. Aries is quickly aroused and just as quickly satisfied – but soon ready to go at it again. Wham bam.

Taurus is almost the opposite of Aries – slow to move, slow to be aroused, but also slow to be satisfied. Taurus takes time, in a good way, and makes sure to do the work necessary. Taurus is not eager to seduce, nor easy for anyone else to seduce. It's a question of patience and persistence. Taurus is there for the long run, and very physical all through.

Gemini treats sex, like everything else, with a light heart, taking few things seriously. Everything is a game, and done with a great sense of humor. Sex, too, should mainly be fun, and not taken that seriously. The seduction is extended, so is foreplay. Intercourse, on the other hand, may be done in an instant.

Cancer is the most emotional Sun Sign, so sex without love or some other deep feeling is unthinkable. The partner is more important than oneself, so Cancer is very caring as a lover, but with the conviction of knowing what the partner needs, even when the partner might not agree.

Leo can get rather self-obsessed as a lover, being eager to impress but also to personally get satisfied. Leo usually needs to feel like the seducer, and the one taking the initiatives, although that's not always the case. To Leo, sex is kind of a performance, which should end with applause.

Virgo is careful, almost to a fault, and pays attention to every detail. Love-making by the book. Virgo needs to have some control of the situation, and wants to learn what the partner wants – as well as to teach the partner how to return the favor. It may be kind of technical, but it will do the trick.

Libra is hesitant, but still somehow forceful. Libra wants it to be perfect for both, which can lead to some moments of confusion, but also to long sessions of delight. To Libra, sex is the joining of two opposites, where they become like one in an embrace that is both physical and spiritual.

Scorpio is fascinated by the emotional dimension of sex and any erotic activities. Well, to Scorpio just about everything has an erotic ingredient. The attraction, the lust, and the passion bubbling under the surface, are the true delights of sex. The physical act may be a way to reach this, but far from the only way.

Sagittarius is elusive by nature, seemingly unattached by longing, lust, and such feelings. Therefore, Sagittarius is difficult to seduce, and rarely a seducer, but often attractive – because of it. Sex might be quick, as if meaning nothing, but sometimes, at the spur of the moment, intense as a forest fire.

Capricorn prefers to plan sexual encounters and then proceed according to plan. A seduction feels like cooperation, foreplay like a warm-up, and intercourse like work. It should take time, and it should have a lasting effect. It usually does. Capricorn is proud of making the most of it.

Aquarius is not much for routine, nor for making things simple. It is hard to figure out who seduces whom, or whose is the initiative, and nobody can guess where it's going or when it will be ended. Aquarius is sensitive to the partner's needs and reactions, but not that easy for the partner to read in the same way. Aquarius seems to want much more out of it than personal satisfaction.

Pisces is very sensitive to the needs of the partner, to the point of forgetting about personal needs. In spite of this sensitivity, Pisces is often unsure about pleasing the partner, as if fearing to be inadequate. Foreplay is long, sometimes substituting intercourse altogether. Also after sex, Pisces is very considerate and caring.

In your horoscope, the position of the moon shows your longings and urges, what you need in order to feel fulfilled. This is certainly signifi­cant in your love-life, although kind of in­directly.

The best way to describe it is that the moon shows something that your sex life needs to include, for you to be satisfied with it.
Now, the sun and the moon are a pair, somewhat like lovers. One is your nature, the other your needs. In a sexual relation, it helps significantly if your sun is in some kind of harmony – or exciting opposition – to your partner. That will tell you much about how fulfilled you both will be.

There is not that much you can do about it, though, if your sun and your partner's moon contradict, or the other way around. If your nature doesn't match your partner's need the least, or if your partner's nature does little to satisfy your needs, then you may have some casual sex, but you're not likely to repeat it much. You will have difficulties staying a couple, even apart from the dissatisfaction of your sex life.

On the other hand, if your sun and moon combine well with those of your partner, you are very likely to twine for long, or even for good.
Here's what the moon reveals about your sexual longings and needs in each of the twelve Zodiac signs:

Aries moon makes you long for action. You quickly get impatient, no matter how fine the moment is. And you do enjoy feeling like the one in charge.

Taurus moon makes you crave for physical expressions of love, and sex without sweat can't be enough. It should take so long that it feels like the baby might be born before the end of it.

Gemini moon needs to have fun. Sex like a game, almost a joke at times. If it's too serious, it loses some of its charm and attraction. It should be improvised, and preferably a little bit naughty.

Cancer moon needs the emotions, all of them, and in abundance. The sex act should be flooding with passion and compassion. Most of all, there should be strong links of mutual need and commitment between the two lovers.

Leo moon needs to be proud, and to be admired. Sex should feel like a rite or a celebration, something much more important and remarkable than what is experienced in everyday life. Like a festival, where there is no doubt about who is the center of attention.

Virgo moon needs scrutiny and attention to detail, where little or nothing happens by chance, not even the climax of the act. It should feel like it all went according to plan.

Libra moon needs mutual satisfaction, or it's like there was no sex at all. Preferably, it should be equal, too, the satisfaction as well as the activity on the way to it. And mostly, there should be a strong feeling of joining, like melting into one.

Scorpio moon needs excitement, surprise, even uncertainty to the point of genuine worry. It should somehow feel like magic, even if next to nothing happens. Also, if the partner is completely swept away, it's perfect.

Sagittarius moon is impatient and unattached. Sex is rarely more than an impulse of the moment, but still it should feel like a rocket taking off. Then, that moment can expand to last forever.

Capricorn moon is devoted to the act, long before and long after it, even when it's not that much. Mostly, though, it is. That's when it's deeply satisfying, like eating a full meal after a long day's hunger. Otherwise it would be just a tease.

Aquarius moon needs a sex act full of deep meaning and contact, where superficial things are almost neglectable, but their significance and meaning are instrumental. Making love should be two souls exploring each other at depth.

Pisces moon is restless, eager to please, but difficult to satisfy. Making love should be like a sacrifice to the partner, a ritual where the partner is the object of devotion. Sex should be somewhat bitter-sweet, or there is something lacking.

The two planets closest connected to sex are Venus and Mars. The former shows what pleases you, and the latter how you want to please your partner. These pleasures are rarely the same, which is why it's necessary for any couple to find a way of giving their sex life two characteristics, rolled into one.

That's not easy. Trying to treat your partner just like you want to be treated might be much easier, but also much more likely to lead to disappoint­ment. Not to mention the complication if both subscribe to the same method, but differ in needs.

It's not even that easy to understand and come to terms with how you want to be pleased. Here's what Venus implies about it, according to the sign it occupies in your horoscope:

Aries Venus wants to be taken by storm, suddenly, surprisingly, and overwhelmingly. This Venus likes to be seduced, or at lest to be able to feel seduced. It should be quick and intense, almost aggressive.

Taurus Venus wants it to go on for very long, and to be very physical, like hard work. There must be patience and perseverance, and a strong sense of presence. This Venus likes it rather hard, but slowly.

Gemini Venus wants to be tickled. There should be playfulness and humor, even in the midst of intense intercourse. Foreplay is even more important. Sex should be fun.

Cancer Venus wants nearness and affection, skin to skin, and everlasting embraces. Feelings are much more important than the physical exercises of it all. Sex should be a way of confirming love, even on a one-night stand.

Leo Venus wants a lot of attention and admiration, to feel like the main character in any sex act. There should even be an ingredient of exhibitionism. The partner must spare no efforts to please.

Virgo Venus wants to be treated exactly according to personal needs, with great attention to detail. Sex can become elaborate, as if according to a detailed plan. No surprises.

Libra Venus wants balance, where there's just as much giving as there is taking, and a sense that both want exactly the same thing – as if there is a right and a wrong way of doing it. Commitment is essential.

Scorpio Venus wants to be surprised, maybe even a little shocked. Things out of the ordinary, where much is left unspoken, clouded in mystery. Passion under a surface of control and restrain.

Sagittarius Venus wants freedom of obligations, like sex at the spur of the moment, no strings attached. Even when it's repeated frequently. Foreplay may not be that important, but the sensations that remain afterward sure are.

Capricorn Venus wants devotion and sincere efforts. Sex is a commitment for which there should be plenty of time and a lot of hard work. Each time there should be a feeling of big difference between before and after.

Aquarius Venus wants profound experiences, whatever they look like or however they feel. Sex is a way of getting contact between spirits, not just physical satisfaction. There needs to be some exploration and experiments.

Pisces Venus wants just about nothing but the satisfaction of pleasing the partner, and takes delight according to how much this is evident. Pleasure comes from giving more than from receiving.

Mars is the active force in your horoscope, the power by which you meet challenges and summon energy from within. In your sexuality, Mars shows how you want to treat your partner, and what you believe is the best way to make love – whether that's really true for your partner or not.

So, learning how to have great sex, astrologically speaking, is really for each partner's Mars to yield to the other one's Venus. But Mars is not that prone to yielding.

At least, it should try to adapt somewhat. The more it manages to do that, the more pleasant sex is for that partner. But if you also want it to be genuinely satisfying to you, your Mars must be expressed in some way. A few creative compromises will be necessary.

Here's what Mars implies about your method to please your partner in each Zodiac sign:

Aries Mars will hurry to seduce and take all initiatives, even to dominate. There is force involved, and something similar to aggression. A conquest more than a joining, a battle more than an embrace.

Taurus Mars will take it slowly, but do it properly and diligently, sparing no effort. No hurry and no surprises, but the basics done with some extra umpf. It's not imaginative, but it's trustworthy.

Gemini Mars will be playful, teasing, and full of humor in a relaxed and joyous manner. There is some seduction involved, and generous attention to foreplay. Speech is involved, as is the tongue in other ways. The intercourse is not the sole center of gravity.

Cancer Mars will be protective and watchful of the partner's feelings. Sex is a method to heighten and intensify emotions and attachments. The commitment is so sincere that it can sometimes feel like a trap, difficult to get out of.

Leo Mars will definitely demand to be in charge, from beginning to end, and stays center-stage all through. It is a performance that needs to be admired. But it is attractive and seductive, if not taken too seriously.

Virgo Mars will pay great attention to detail, and try to do everything exactly right, find the right buttons, do it all as it is supposed to be done, and stay in control. It is not very passionate, maybe even restrained, but it is competent.

Libra Mars will invite the partner to equal efforts and try to find balance, with the conviction that there is a right and a wrong way of doing things – beyond personal preferences. There is dedication and sincerity, but not much improvisation.

Scorpio Mars will stir up emotions, not all of them pleasant, but definitely sensational. The partner's experience and reaction is the goal. The methods are sometime far-fetched, often unusual, even kinky. But always exciting.

Sagittarius Mars will be sort of unattached, like only semi-present, on the way to elsewhere. At best, it's an invitation to a fascinating journey, at worst it's done in an instant and then farewell. But it is always intriguing.

Capricorn Mars will be very ambitious about it, making plans, setting high goals, and work toward them with determination and perseverance. Sex is concrete and physical, but its aim is more than that.

Aquarius Mars will explore and experiment, for the purpose of learning how to do it better. The partner is a laboratory, and sex is research into the inner workings of both persons involved. It's very serious, sometimes almost depressing, but definitely intriguing.

Pisces Mars will be sensitive to the partner's needs, gentle as if shy and hesitant, careful as if afraid to cause pain or discomfort, but very devoted to make it fantastic. There is sort of a shiver present, and the possibility of sudden withdrawal.

Previously, I have presented how to read the following influences on your sexuality in your horoscope: the sun, the moon, Venus, and Mars. They show different sides of your sexuality:

The sun shows your basic nature.
The moon shows your basic needs.
Venus shows how you want to be pleased.
Mars shows how you want to please.

It's when you understand and combine all the above ingredients that you learn what your horoscope has to say about your love life and your sexuality. Other parts of the horoscope can add some information and perspectives, but these four are by far the most important ones.

So, if you want to make sure that your partner, too, gets as much out of it as possible, you should compare your horoscopes regarding these four ingredients. How does your sun match your partner's sun, and even more importantly: how does your sun match the partner's moon, and vice versa? The same goes for Venus and Mars.
The sun and moon relate to basic urges of the personality, whereas Venus and Mars in this case deal more with the actual sex act, and how it is played out. Therefore, in a lasting relation the former pair is far more important than the latter, but in casual sex it might very well be the other way around.

This is the astrological explanation to the fact that you might have very satisfying sex with a stranger, but less so with your life-partner, and for some people that is almost never the case. I am sure that you see these patterns when reading what is said about the four ingredients in detail, above.

Finally, don't trust my text on the subject more than your own feelings and experiences. The horoscope is complicated, as is the human character, so there are many ways that personality traits can be altered or even reversed, wherever the aforementioned heavenly bodies are in your horoscope – and in that of your partner.

So, whatever the horoscope predicts: try it, you might like it. And if you don't, maybe the horoscope can give you some clue or idea about how to improve things. It's worth trying.